[13] But we do not want you to be uninformed, brothers, about those who are asleep, that you may not grieve as others do who have no hope. [14] For since we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so, through Jesus, God will bring with him those who have fallen asleep. [15] For this we declare to you by a word from the Lord, that we who are alive, who are left until the coming of the Lord, will not precede those who have fallen asleep. (1 Thessalonians 4:13–15)
Because Christians can be expected to use euphemisms, there are times when we need to clarify that we’re not using a euphemism. This passage from St. Paul is perfect example.
Euphemisms are words that allow us to graciously describe a sensitive topic or experience. For example, instead of saying a student is “failing” in a class, we’ll say he is “struggling.” Or instead of saying a neighbor of saying a neighbor is a “drunk,” we’ll say he “likes his drink.”
Christians are especially expected to be gracious in describing our neighbor. In Ephesians 4:32 we’re instructed to, “Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.” In honoring the Eight Commandment, we “put the best construction” on all our conversations.
For this reason, it is possible for our unbelieving family or friends to misunderstand when we say a loved one “fell asleep in the Lord.” Those without faith in Christ could think we are finding a nice way to say that our loved one “died.” This isn’t accurate. We are stating a fact. It’s also a great opportunity to witness.
It is worth explaining to such family or friends that there will be a resurrection of the dead. This will happen when Christ returns. All people will be resurrected. Those with faith in Christ will be with God throughout eternity; those without faith in Jesus will be separated from God for eternity. We pray that, after this statement, our loved ones will want to know more about Jesus. In fact, this Scripture passage is a great resource for such conversations.
(A Second Look devotions are written for the congregations of the Ohio District LCMS.)
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